11 December

It's been a little while since I've updated this blog so I'll try to catch things up.
I was very happy to finally discontinue the steroid drug about 2 weeks ago. 
The good news: is that some of the obvious side-effects I had been experiencing (face/ankle swelling, flaky skin etc) have almost gone! I am grateful!
The bad news: is that I have had a gradual increase in back pain since that time, including some fairly debilitating days. Grrr
After putting up with it for some days, I was encouraged by a friend to seek help now! 
So I did. As a result, I was blessed to have an appointment with the pain management doctor who 'just happened' to be in Portland this past week (on her one-day-a-month visits to Portland) and 'just happened' to have a time slot for a home visit on Thursday. She's a woman of action, and likes to leave with an action plan - and I like that! I'm now on a helpful slow release NSAID drug, and she has also ordered xrays which I'll have on Monday - basically to check that there is no disease in the left ribs (where I feel the pain). Hopefully that will not be the case, and the cause of pain is much more likely to be nerve pain. I'll know more next week. 
The amazing thing is that just when I have had a more challenging week, I have had unexpected surprises - phone calls, visits, flowers, and even a trip with a friend to IGA for a slow browsy shop-up (quite a treat for me, when Brian is the usual shopper!).

Meanwhile, although we are not as actively involved in a lot of end-of-year activities, we have been busier that usual. That's good, and we try to take part and contribute where we can. 

Back in January, we had planned to renew our side house fence, but of course that didn't happen with our lives in turmoil after my cancer diagnosis. So it happened this past week, and despite Brian's aching body (from assisting in the removal of the old fence), we can now look out at a brand new fence. Now there's just a few jobs that need to finish it off (moving some dirt and sand etc) but Brian can just potter along and do it in dribs and drabs as none of it is urgent. I'm just glad the big job is done. 
 
Brian continues to take things a day at a time - some days being better than others.         Last week he had a skin lesion removed from his ear and that has proved to be cancerous, so we'll have to be vigilant from now on. When I think about it, in the 60's we didn't give too much thought to sun protection - no hats or sunscreen, lying out in the sun while listening to the tranny and sunbaking, sometimes with added baby oil to increase the tanning potential (goodness, that's like preparing a body for roasting!) and bemoaning when our skin would readily burn. Abusing our bodies certainly brings consequences,albeit so many years later. 
I sometimes wonder about the source of my own cancer - but I won't ever know that as I don't fall into the high risk categories for kidney cancer (being an overweight smoking male!)

The boys in action (while I watch from the lounge window)